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The weather could not have been more
agreeable to help make this, The Second International Conference on
Adolescent Treatment Abuse, a huge success. The festivities actually started on Thursday afternoon when radio WMNF of Tampa did a follow-up interview with former Straight
students Richard Bradbury, Samantha Monroe and Chris
Tyler with yours truly piped in via telephone. I got up at 4:30 Friday morning to work some more on my
speech and surfed to www.sptimes.com --the on-line version of
The Saint Petersburg Times (America's Newspaper)--where
I was pleasantly surprised to see a picture of Richard, Sammie and Chris right
at the top of the front page. It was an article
written by Jeanne Malgren about Straight abuses.
Ms. Malgren also covered our upcoming
conference. When I checked again at 5AM the story had been moved further into the paper, but for
one fleeting moment it had been front page.
I arrived in Tampa at 4:45 that afternoon and was immediately whisked off by Sammie Monroe to Treasure Island and the US residence of our Ambassador to Italy, Mel Sembler. Or should I say to the public street in front of his home. Mel and his wife Betty are the founders of Straight, Inc. and we were there to protest our President's decision to make him an ambassador in spite of the reputation of criminal child abuse which the Straights have brought upon themselves. There were probably 15 picketers and about 20 people there total, including a photographer from America's newspaper. Betty had recently hurt her foot in an automobile accident and at some point during the picket a delivery van delivered flowers making us think that she was perhaps at home. There was a private security guard in the front yard. Marked police cars were parked all over the place with three plain clothes officers stationed across the street. At one point one of the picketers stepped off the public street onto the Sembler's arched driveway (an apparent accident) and was told by the security guard that if it happened again she would call the police. She must have thought it had happened again because soon after a police car showed up. We were all hoping they would come in mass like they did in Orlando with sirens blasting and blue lights glaring bringing public attention to the spectacle, but it was just the lone cruiser without fanfare.
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In the evening I was dining at Mattison's with the conference planning committee when all sorts of former Straight students and former students from its descendent and precedent programs started showing up. I finally found out how they knew we were meeting. The Times had mentioned the reception in their column. Everyone was in high spirits with the mood being somewhere between being around survivors of Auschwitz and around former students gathered for their 20th high school re-union. The conference began at 9 AM on Saturday morning. Conference sponsor Mike Sherman made opening remarks (his charming wife Rhonda was always in charge in the wings). Mike introduced our chair Arnold Trebach. If you've never heard Professor Trebach speak before you should come sometime. He's a spry old gentleman with commanding presence and a great sense of humor. He's a great man of purpose. Sammie Monroe told us about her experience at Straight-Sarasota. She had a very terrifying experience. I spoke for an hour about where the Straights came from and where its descendents are today. I stood Richard Bradbury up (the man who single-handedly shut them down) and we all gave him a rousing round of applause. I thing everyone was moved. Alexia Parks came on after me and told us the story of how she tried to get her niece out of a faith-based boarding school and how that eye-opening experience compelled her to write her book An American Gulag which tells the story of religious-based and secular-based academies for kids with special problems. She told the gripping story of a teenage girl who was abducted in plain site on a busy New York City Street yelling and screaming with all her might, and grabbing fence rails to try to keep her abductors from forcing her into a car. No one came to her aid reminding me of the Kitty Genovese murder 25 years before in that same city. Kitty had been a young woman pleading for her life as her assailant stabbed her over and over again, but no one would come to her aid. A police officer had stood idly by as the young was being abducted, afterwards saying that it was an intervention and not a real a kidnapping because her parents had ordered it for her own good to get her into rehabilitation. Besides being an author, Alexia Parks delivers a potent speech.
There was a survivor's panel. Greg B. told us what it was like to be in the Seed. Actually there were three Seed survivors
present. I learned of the suicide of a least three former Seed students during discussions during the breaks. Greg told us about the spanking machine where to
further humiliate a teenager the parent may sometime be called in to spank his child with a belt with a circle of Seed kids watching on. Mark Davis had been in Straight in Saint Petersburg and was with the original pod which broke off to form Straight-Atlanta. He told us about an escape he once made only to be placed on a plane back to Florida. When he got off the plane Straight
representatives were awaiting him, and like the lady on the street in New York,
he put up a good fight right in the Miami airport, but no
one cared there either. Matt Hoffman, a former student in
Elan, a Synanon-based therapeutic community in Maine,
was unable to make it but sent a taped segment. Elii Chapman with two "i's" came all the way from Arizona to tell us about a destructive program she had discovered in California and how she had been a one man (or rather woman) show to force state regulatory agencies to do their jobs in
licensing and monitoring this place. It took a persistent effort which finally paid off when authorities from several state agencies raided the school and took all of the kids out. |
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Carol Giambalvo was the final speaker on Saturday. She is with the American Family Foundation, a scholarly organization formed to study destructive-mind cults and to educate the public about these places. She guided us through Dr. Robert Jay Lifton's Criteria for Thought Reform and Dr. Margaret Thaler Singer's Conditions for Thought Reform. She spoke on coercion and post-cult trauma. And she told us how to cope with trance states. She told us about "floating" or states that many former cult members may experience where they feel they are an observer to what is going on rather than an actual participant, and
about "triggers" or events that can set off these episodes. Originally three attorneys had been scheduled for Sunday morning. On Thursday I learned that Ben Stewart had called me three weeks before to cancel due to a pressing matter but I had not gotten the message from the receiver on my end. And after I had left for Tampa I received an email from Ken Dandar that he was very sick and would not make the conference. So I was in panic mode on Sunday morning with three hours to fill for a legal panel that was suddenly down to just Arnold Trebach (who is also an attorney). Arnold waited 15 minutes and stood up and announced that it looked like it would just be he. And he went on to perform brilliantly, I might add, as a one man show guiding us through the mores and lores of legal actions, we might consider. After lunch author Dr. Michael Conrad served as a facilitator who guided us through the depths of forming an organization. Setting up goals, mission, structure, objectives and such. We did decide upon an organization, yet unnamed, to accomplish our goals. Samantha "Sammie" Monroe was voted in as interim director for this nameless organization. We proposed the following mission statement and five key initiatives:
Channel 10 news arrived and interviewed Doc, Alexia, Arnold, Sammie and me. A woman whose name I will not yet reveal donated $25,000 to our program to be given in 5 yearly installments.
One comment I would make. I went over to Bay Walk with a crowd one evening and drank one or two beers (or maybe seven). Bay Walk is the big shopping mall that Mel Sembler built for the city. It is a beautiful place. There are shops for buying in the day time and all sorts of great eateries for dining in the evening. In the late evening in the later third of its day , the place swings with night music and booze. Now I'm all for that sort of stuff after a busy day of work, yet, as I was there, I though what a hypocrite this man Mel Sembler is. Without booze, the income from the nightlife part of Bay Walk's day would cease to exist. How could he lock up kids for allegedly smoking a joint and then condone such widespread use of alcohol? The conference was a resounding
success by all accounts. We have now left to better formalize what the new organization will do. But one thing, there will be more pickets. The perpetrators of
Straight's crimes can no longer go un-noticed. The word will be spread. WE ARE BACK. |
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Pictures provided courtesy of Kelly Mathews (the webdiva). A full montage is at http://www.webdiva.org/photos/conference/index.htm |